Once you've found that beautiful barefoot girl you've been seeking, you need to do something to attract her.  And that, my friend, starts long before she ever makes it onto your target scope.

There are things that you can do in any given situation that will improve your chances - which can be found on the How to Meet Girls page - but the truth is that your ability to succeed with any given woman has more to do with who you are than with what you do.

So, how do you become the kind of man she's interested in?

If you're here on this site, seeking to learn how to meet barefoot girls, you're obviously not meeting them now.  So, the first step to becoming the kind of man that barefoot girls want to be around is to embrace the concept of change.

The Importance of Change

I cannot overstate this.  The single most important thing you can do to move yourself toward a life of success - not just in surrounding yourself with beautiful women, but in any area of life - is to adopt a willingness to change.

Einstein has been quoted as saying, "The best definition of insanity is doing the same thing the same way and expecting a different result."

Yet, this is exactly what many of us do when it comes to meeting new people.  We just keep doing what we do and hope that one day we will meet the right person and everything will work.

While there may be one special person for you out there, if she doesn't notice you in the one moment of opportunity you have, you may never meet.  Therefore, you must commit to making the changes necessary to become someone who will catch her eye.

Embracing Change

Change can be scary.  Change can be difficult.  But, change is inevitable.

Since you are going to be faced with change anyway, wouldn't it make more sense to be involved in it, rather than sitting around and just watching it unfold?

Consciously pursuing change in your life is the best way to deal with it.  It cannot catch you by surprise if you are actively involved in creating it.

There is still one frightening thing to deal with, however.  When you set out on a true journey of self-development, one thing you must accept:

When I faced that spectre, it was quite troubling.  I had to come to grips with the knowledge that all of the people in my life would begin to perceive me differently.  In some cases that might be good, but in others it could be very bad.

I almost had to grieve for my former self.  The old me had to die for the new me to be born.

It was scary, but I did it.

The Benefits of Change

Once I became willing to let go of my old self, possibilities began to expand before me.  By releasing my grip on the old version of me, I also released myself from all of his limitations, fears, insecurities and doubts.  I became a new man with unlimited potential.

In the past four years, I have accomplished things that the old me couldn't even have imagined doing.  I have seen more...felt more...done more than I ever believed possible.

But, I could not have done it if I had not been willing to change.

Where to Begin

I am still on my journey of personal growth.  And, because its beginnings are still fresh in my mind, I am able to help you get started on a similar journey of your own.

It starts with the idea that being successful with women is a skill that can be learned.

It isn't all hit-or-miss.  It isn't just about meeting that one, special person in a billion.

You can make changes to yourself that will make you innately more interesting and attractive.  You can become a person that all people want to be around, and you don't have to sacrifice your fundamental values to do it.

The best way I can teach you how to begin this journey of personal change is to direct you to the very same guide book that I used to get me started.

I've learned along the way that, like most things worth learning, success with women is something that has different levels.  You can't take Calculus before Algebra.  You have to learn to crawl before you can walk.

Likewise, you can't go straight to the high-level pick-up material.  You have to wrap your mind around some fundamental ideas first, or the advanced stuff won't make sense.

The book that I believe gives you the best foundation for how to eventually become a man who is a favorite with women is David DeAngelo's Double-Your-Dating e-Book.

David DeAngelo has actually been a mentor of mine throughout my whole journey.  His material ranges from the very basic to the very advanced.

And, at $19.97, his Double-Your-Dating e-Book is a steal.  You can download it right away, and begin to experience its life-changing effects immediately.

Meant to be used as a reference manual, rather than a read-and-forget textbook, you will find yourself constantly going back to it during the early part of your journey.  As you work to build habits out of the practices and attitudes he recommends, this book will help you stretch your limits and grow beyond what you ever thought possible.

Where your journey ultimately takes you is up to you.  There are a number of good-quality sources for information about how to succeed with the opposite sex - including me  ;) - so you should have no problem finding one that fits your personal style.  But, wherever you ultimately want to go, this book is the best place to start.

Also, the book comes with a 30-day, money-back guarantee.  You can download the book, read it and, if you haven't started to feel some changes after 30 days, you can ask for your money back.

So, you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.  When that beautiful lady you attracted is riding beside you with her bare feet perched on the dashboard, wiggling her toes seductively, are you really going to miss the twenty bucks?

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