If you're here on this site, seeking to learn how to meet
barefoot girls, you're obviously not meeting them now. So,
the first step to becoming the kind of man that barefoot girls
want to be around is to embrace the concept of change.
The Importance of Change
I cannot overstate this. The single most important thing
you can do to move yourself toward a life of success - not just
in surrounding yourself with beautiful women, but in any area of
life - is to adopt a willingness to change.
Einstein has been quoted as saying, "The best definition of
insanity is doing the same thing the same way and expecting a
Yet, this is exactly what many of us do when it comes to meeting
new people. We just keep doing what we do and hope that
one day we will meet the right person and everything will work.
While there may be one special person for you out there, if she
doesn't notice you in the one moment of opportunity you have, you
may never meet. Therefore, you must commit to making the
changes necessary to become someone who will catch her eye.
Change can be scary. Change can be difficult. But,
change is inevitable.
Since you are going to be faced with change anyway, wouldn't
it make more sense to be involved in it, rather than sitting
around and just watching it unfold?
Consciously pursuing change in your life is the best way to deal
with it. It cannot catch you by surprise if you are actively
involved in creating it.
There is still one frightening thing to deal with, however.
When you set out on a true journey of self-development, one
thing you must accept:
In order to become the person that you want to become, you must
stop being the person that you are now.
When I faced that spectre, it was quite troubling. I had
to come to grips with the knowledge that all of the people in my
life would begin to perceive me differently. In some cases
that might be good, but in others it could be very bad.
I almost had to grieve for my former self. The old me
had to die for the new me to be born.
It was scary, but I did it.
The Benefits of Change
Once I became willing to let go of my old self, possibilities
began to expand before me. By releasing my grip on the old
version of me, I also released myself from all of his limitations,
fears, insecurities and doubts. I became a new man with
In the past four years, I have accomplished things that the
old me couldn't even have imagined doing. I have seen
more...felt more...done more than I ever believed possible.
But, I could not have done it if I had not been willing to
Where to Begin
I am still on my journey of personal growth. And, because
its beginnings are still fresh in my mind, I am able to help you
get started on a similar journey of your own.
It starts with the idea that being successful with women is a
skill that can be learned.
It isn't all hit-or-miss. It isn't just about meeting
that one, special person in a billion.
You can make changes to yourself that will make you innately more
interesting and attractive. You can become a person that all
people want to be around, and you don't have to sacrifice your
fundamental values to do it.
The best way I can teach you how to begin this journey of
personal change is to direct you to the very same guide book that I
used to get me started.
I've learned along the way that, like most things worth learning,
success with women is something that has different levels. You
can't take Calculus before Algebra. You have to learn to
crawl before you can walk.
Likewise, you can't go straight to the high-level pick-up
material. You have to wrap your mind around some fundamental
ideas first, or the advanced stuff won't make sense.
The book that I believe gives you the best foundation for how to
eventually become a man who is a favorite with women is
David DeAngelo's Double-Your-Dating
David DeAngelo has actually been a mentor of mine throughout my
whole journey. His material ranges from the very basic to the
And, at $19.97, his
is a steal. You can download it right away, and begin to
experience its life-changing effects immediately.
Meant to be used as a reference manual, rather than a
read-and-forget textbook, you will find yourself constantly going
back to it during the early part of your journey. As you work
to build habits out of the practices and attitudes he recommends,
this book will help you stretch your limits and grow beyond what
you ever thought possible.
Where your journey ultimately takes you is up to you. There
are a number of good-quality sources for information about how to
succeed with the opposite sex -
including me ;) - so you
should have no problem finding one that fits your personal
style. But, wherever you ultimately want to go, this book is
the best place to start.
Also, the book comes with a 30-day, money-back guarantee. You
can download the book, read it and, if you haven't started to feel
some changes after 30 days, you can ask for your money back.
So, you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. When
that beautiful lady you attracted is riding beside you with her
bare feet perched on the dashboard, wiggling her toes seductively,
are you really going to miss the twenty bucks?
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