Finding barefoot girls is one thing, but what do you do when you actually do find one?

You need to do something to make sure that she doesn't just vanish like something out of a dream.  You need to take some kind of action to approach, meet and attract her.  And you only get one chance...

So, what do you do?

Well, obviously, this question has no easy answer.  Through my years of study, however, I have put together a list of the best material for helping you learn what to do to make every interaction you have with a woman as successful as it can possibly be.

The first thing you must do is accept that success with women has more to do with who you are than what you do.  So, the best thing you can do starting out is to begin learning how to become an inherently interesting and attractive man.  The following link will get you started on that path.

• How to Be Attractive

Being able to attract women to you is at the heart of ultimate success.  All the gimmicks, tricks and pick-up lines in the book can't help you if you really aren't all that interesting.  Being inherently attractive, however, can get you places even when your other actions would seem counterproductive.

The best part is that it doesn't have anything to do with looks or money.  Any man can learn to attract women more effectively.

So, before you read any further, click here to get your foundation on becoming an attractive man.

"Meanwhile, at the Hall of Justice..."

Okay, now.  You've downloaded and read David DeAngelo's Double-Your-Dating e-Book.  You have begun to make the kinds of deep, lasting, personal changes that are required to become an attractive man.  But, what do you do in the meanwhile?

Suppose that you run across your barefoot dream girl in the next few days when you are still just beginning your personal transformation.  What do you do then?

Well, there's a phrase in personal development that will help you get through this.  That phrase is: "Fake it 'til you make it!"

An Important Lesson

I learned a very important lesson from a friend of mine a few years ago.  At the time, I was just starting out on this exciting journey of self-improvement myself.  But, even then, the message hit home.

We were talking about my inability to initiate an uninvited touch on a woman.  She told me this:

"Women need physical affection."

She also said:

"If you touch a woman, and you do it with confidence, she won't know that you're terrified inside.  She can't tell."

This is the heart of the "Fake it 'til you make it" approach.

Become an Action Hero

Have you ever thought about why people go see action movies?  Or what makes an action hero an action hero?

An action hero is not called an "action hero" because he just happens to be the star of an action film.  He is called an "action hero" because he takes action.

This is why people go see action movies.  They like to see action.  No one wants to go see a movie about people doing nothing all day long, getting the same results as always, and having nothing change.

People watch action movies because of the actions the characters take.  They want to live vicariously through the heroes lives of adventure and excitement which they don't believe themselves capable of living.

What they don't realize is that the only thing standing between them and the action hero lives they want is the action that they take.

Watch the movie "Shaun of the Dead" for a great example of this concept.  The main character, Shaun, is basically a loser.  He has a low-level management job at a retail store, his girlfriend dumps him, and his best friend is an unemployed mooch.

And yet, he has a movie made about him.  Why?

Because he does something.  He takes action.  And his story turns out to be really good!

So, the lesson here is, whatever the situation, you are going to appear a lot more interesting and get a lot more rewarding results if you just take action.  It doesn't have to be perfect - even James Bond flubs up every once in a while - but just by doing something you put yourself in a much better position to succeed.

Adopt the mentality that you are the hero in your own action film, and the world is waiting for you to take the action that's going to bring about the happy ending.  When other people are standing around wondering what to do, you step forward and do it.

That's what being an action hero is all about.

You Can't Lose

Continuing this action hero analogy a little bit further, there is a very good reason (besides having the screenwriter on his side) that James Bond is so successful.

It's because he knows he is.

James Bond enters every situation with the knowledge that it's going to go his way.  He doesn't even consider the possibility that it might not (which it often doesn't).  He just goes in acting like he knows exactly what's going to happen, and that it's going to be exactly what he wants.

Now, this attitude allows him to cope even when things don't go his way.  It simply becomes a new situation which, again, he believes is going to turn out the way he wants it.

He may have gone in expecting to capture an enemy, but ends up fleeing to avoid capture.  Either way, he knows that he is going to be successful in accomplishing his goal, whatever it might be at the time.

Flexibility and an unwavering belief that things are going to go his way allow him to overcome every obstacle.

There is no reason why you can't believe this, too.  After all, you are your own screenwriter.  You write your own story, and you are the hero.

Write the story so that you get the girl, and no one will be able to stop you.

4 Simple Steps

Now, back to this whole "Fake it 'til you make it" idea.  It doesn't help to believe you're unstoppable, if you don't know how to get going in the first place.

Fortunately for you, I have spent the past four years studying how to meet women.  From all of the studying I have done - from all the material I have read and all the gurus I've consulted - I have determined that your success in meeting a woman in any situation can be improved by taking just 4 simple actions.

1. Smile


2. Talk to her


3. Listen to her


4. Touch her

That's it!  You can study for years and learn all kinds of routines and techniques and psychological games, but it all boils down to those four things.

When you keep it real, you know what to expect, and it is just a whole lot easier.

So, go out and start practicing.  You never know when that next barefoot beauty is going to pad silently into your life.  Follow these four steps, and you'll be ready!

Or, at the very least, you will appear to be.  "Fake it 'til you make it."  She can't tell the difference.

And, after a while, neither will you.  :)

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