This is another one that should be a no-brainer, but many guys
seem to forget it.
However liberated modern women are supposed to be, most are
still not inclined to make the first move. So, if you want
to meet her, you have to talk to her first.
Now, don't get caught up in exactly what to say. It
doesn't matter. Just say something...anything
...to get the conversation started.
Starting the initial conversation is the hardest part. And
this is the one area where most men fail before they have even
It isn't because they don't know what to say. It's because
they believe they don't know what to say, and so
they don't say anything at all.
If you're like me, when a girl is barefoot, I can usually come
up with something to say. And it doesn't necessarily have to
do with the fact that she's barefoot. That just
motivates me enough to start a conversation, no matter what.
And that's a good thing. As I said before, starting the
conversation is actually the hardest part.
If you study how to meet girls for any length of time, you
will probably run across something called the "3-Second Rule."
As its name indicates, the 3-Second Rule says that, once
you see the beautiful barefoot girl you want to meet, you must
approach and talk to her within three seconds.
If you don't, one of two things will generally happen:
- She'll disappear.
- Like some mythical pixie, if you don't act the instant that
she appears unto you, she'll vanish as if she was never there.
- You'll psyche yourself out of it.
- This is actually the more common and serious problem. But
it's also the one over which you have the greater control. If
you just say something in those first three seconds, you won't have
time to convince yourself not to.
So, do it! Say something! Start a conversation.
Then,move on to the next step:
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