This is another one that should be a no-brainer, but many guys seem to forget it.

However liberated modern women are supposed to be, most are still not inclined to make the first move.  So, if you want to meet her, you have to talk to her first.

Now, don't get caught up in exactly what to say.  It doesn't matter.  Just say something...anything ...to get the conversation started.

Starting the initial conversation is the hardest part.  And this is the one area where most men fail before they have even begun.

It isn't because they don't know what to say.  It's because they believe they don't know what to say, and so they don't say anything at all.

If you're like me, when a girl is barefoot, I can usually come up with something to say.  And it doesn't necessarily have to do with the fact that she's barefoot.  That just motivates me enough to start a conversation, no matter what.

And that's a good thing.  As I said before, starting the conversation is actually the hardest part.

If you study how to meet girls for any length of time, you will probably run across something called the "3-Second Rule."  As its name indicates, the 3-Second Rule says that, once you see the beautiful barefoot girl you want to meet, you must approach and talk to her within three seconds.

If you don't, one of two things will generally happen:

1. She'll disappear.

   Like some mythical pixie, if you don't act the instant that she appears unto you, she'll vanish as if she was never there.

2. You'll psyche yourself out of it.

   This is actually the more common and serious problem.  But it's also the one over which you have the greater control.  If you just say something in those first three seconds, you won't have time to convince yourself not to.

So, do it!  Say something!  Start a conversation.  Then,move on to the next step: Listening.

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